united we stand divided we fall

i love how the World has been so united after Japans Earthquake. but why does it always have to take a huge Earthquake, 9/11, and other catastrophic events for the world to be united? China putting their differences aside and helping Japan, big Japanese Mafia helping each other help the country. even in the united states. after 9/11 ive never see so many people go out of their way and help their fellow neighbor..this should happen on a daily basis and without a horrible event to occur.